Question
So, when the invitation does not specify dress code, what is the proper attire?
~Sarah
Answer
Great question Sarah. While it's becoming more common for people to put the dress code on the invitation, it's generally done more if it's a formal affair. (For example, black tie or white tie)
If the invitation doesn't specifically state it you can try a number of things to surmise the proper attire.
- Look at the invitation- Is it engraved? Is it formally worded or more playfully?
- What time of day is the reception? Daytime events are less formal than night.
- Where is it being held? Is it at a church? In a garden? At the beach? Dress appropriately for that venue.
- What is the couple like? Are they more likely to have a formal event or more laid back? (Although be careful with your assumptions on this one, people do not always make the same choices regarding a wedding as any other event.)
- Is this a themed wedding?
Much can be deciphered by paying attention to these cues. If you still don't know what to wear, best to go with a jacket and tie for the men and a nice dress for the ladies.
Many things are true regarding attire no matter what the preferred dress is.
- It's always better to overdress than under-dress.
- Don't overshadow the bride.
- Always wear something modest.
- Dress to show respect for the couple and the event.
